Well hello followers, I am very sorry I have not updated you. A lot has happened. For starters, my father was rushed to the hospital after going for a check-up with his doctor. He was operated the 23rd and was given to O.K. to go home New Year's Eve. Other than my father's operation, there was a death. My cousin Lexie's friend, David, committed suicide right after returning from Dominican Republic. I feel terrible for his father.
This brings me to an important topic: How people change when things go "wrong." I put quotations on the word wrong because everything that happens has a reason. For example, my father's operation needed to happen so he realizes that his health is no joke. As for David's death, I did not know much about the kid but I did know that when I first met him he seemed out of it. We never know a person's story until they open up or it's too late. He'd been hospitalized for depression. His father and my cousin were the only two who were with him day in and day out. After his death, friends and family members mourned. The question is, where were they when he needed them the most? Many say this could have been prevented, and I agree. Some say he would have done it regardless, I doubt it. We all put people aside when they need us the most. I too am guilty of this, I cannot lie. We get tired of drilling things into other's heads and getting nowhere. Shoot, I know people who are constantly telling me things for my own good, and I never listen.
Besides the madness stated above, great things have occurred since my last update. I quit Applebee's because they were being unfair to customers and employees alike and have gone back to working at my brother's design firm (gain experience in my field ^_^ --it's a win-win). My nephew started eating cereal and baby food and is still a "Chubbawubba" as his mother likes to call him. What else, hmmm... Oh yes, let's discuss the love life. Well, since my last update who was it, Cuban? He and I are still friends, we've talked about hanging out sometime this week. I met a Brazilian, he's a sweetheart, but we're only friends as well. T is officially out of my life (I can hear friends clapping away..lmao), I contacted J for New Year's and that was pointless. All I said was "Happy New Year" and he flipped. The immaturity is just part of his personality. JD is back with his ex and I am so proud of him! ^_^ B has gone missing since he went to Florida, MB and I are still friends, talk here and there. JV is still the guy I compare every other man to...and I wouldn't have it any other way. Let's see who else, oh there's an old friend ,DJ, who I've been seeing here and there, nothing serious.
People often ask, "So who's/who are the man/men in your life?" I just respond with, there aren't any. Truth is, there may be people I am getting to know, but I just see them as friends. I've been in a serious relationship and as for now all I want to do is just enjoy myself. Not as in whore around, but just network, get to know different people. Converse with strangers about life and not have someone beside me saying: "Babe, why are you doing this...or that?!" Or have someone care about me so much he feels the need to see me every 5seconds. I don't like to feel tied down. I can be dedicated, but I'm young. I've had the guy who I swore I was going to marry and now, all I want is the guy who is a friend and if that leads to something then so be, until then, I just need to focus on my path. Mr. Right Now is great, for 2-seconds and nothing more. Mr. Right will meet me down the path of success. <3
How's that for a an update!
-T. Love
This brings me to an important topic: How people change when things go "wrong." I put quotations on the word wrong because everything that happens has a reason. For example, my father's operation needed to happen so he realizes that his health is no joke. As for David's death, I did not know much about the kid but I did know that when I first met him he seemed out of it. We never know a person's story until they open up or it's too late. He'd been hospitalized for depression. His father and my cousin were the only two who were with him day in and day out. After his death, friends and family members mourned. The question is, where were they when he needed them the most? Many say this could have been prevented, and I agree. Some say he would have done it regardless, I doubt it. We all put people aside when they need us the most. I too am guilty of this, I cannot lie. We get tired of drilling things into other's heads and getting nowhere. Shoot, I know people who are constantly telling me things for my own good, and I never listen.
Besides the madness stated above, great things have occurred since my last update. I quit Applebee's because they were being unfair to customers and employees alike and have gone back to working at my brother's design firm (gain experience in my field ^_^ --it's a win-win). My nephew started eating cereal and baby food and is still a "Chubbawubba" as his mother likes to call him. What else, hmmm... Oh yes, let's discuss the love life. Well, since my last update who was it, Cuban? He and I are still friends, we've talked about hanging out sometime this week. I met a Brazilian, he's a sweetheart, but we're only friends as well. T is officially out of my life (I can hear friends clapping away..lmao), I contacted J for New Year's and that was pointless. All I said was "Happy New Year" and he flipped. The immaturity is just part of his personality. JD is back with his ex and I am so proud of him! ^_^ B has gone missing since he went to Florida, MB and I are still friends, talk here and there. JV is still the guy I compare every other man to...and I wouldn't have it any other way. Let's see who else, oh there's an old friend ,DJ, who I've been seeing here and there, nothing serious.
People often ask, "So who's/who are the man/men in your life?" I just respond with, there aren't any. Truth is, there may be people I am getting to know, but I just see them as friends. I've been in a serious relationship and as for now all I want to do is just enjoy myself. Not as in whore around, but just network, get to know different people. Converse with strangers about life and not have someone beside me saying: "Babe, why are you doing this...or that?!" Or have someone care about me so much he feels the need to see me every 5seconds. I don't like to feel tied down. I can be dedicated, but I'm young. I've had the guy who I swore I was going to marry and now, all I want is the guy who is a friend and if that leads to something then so be, until then, I just need to focus on my path. Mr. Right Now is great, for 2-seconds and nothing more. Mr. Right will meet me down the path of success. <3
How's that for a an update!
-T. Love
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